Death-with-dignity advocate Brittany Maynard and husband Dan Diaz at their wedding. Maynard’s death by lethal injection in November drew attention to the aid-in-dying issue now being considered in several states. (PRNewsFoto/Compassion & Choices)
By Michael Ollove
After he decided to hasten his death, Erwin Byrnes, who had advanced Parkinson’s disease, set about planning all the details of the memorial service that would follow.
He designated the nearby DoubleTree Hotel in Missoula, Montana, as the venue. He asked his old friend Gene to serve as master of ceremonies. He selected the entire menu—shrimp (because no one doesn’t like shrimp), sandwiches, beer and the hotel’s oatmeal cookies with chocolate and walnuts that he relished. He selected music that would soothe his mourners, including the Frank Sinatra tune “September Song” and Louis Armstrong’s classic “It’s a Wonderful World.”
It came off just as the former high school principal had wished—just as his death had five days earlier on St. Patrick’s Day last year. Byrnes, later described by his wife as “a good Irishman,” had selected that day as most suitable for his departure from this world. On that morning, with his family surrounding him, he squeezed a valve on a tube leading to his body, sending a fatal barbiturate his physician had legally prescribed coursing into his bloodstream.
“It was a beautiful way to be able to end his life,” said Erwin’s wife of nearly 64 years. “In peace and in control and with dignity.”
It happened only because of a Montana Supreme Court decision in 2009 that has put the state in company with four others that allow assisted suicide or, as proponents prefer, “death with dignity” or “medical aid-in-dying.” The states permit physicians to prescribe lethal medications for terminally ill patients, who then self-administer the medications. Continue reading